Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Fetishes


I'm sitting here writing and editing and double checking all sorts of stats at Eye On Life e-zine. Feeling great about it, but not feeling great in general. After a rather odd week of goings on that made me feel a bit as though I were in the twilight zone, I seem to have developed an odd crick that runs from the top of my neck round the outside to the bottom of my left shoulder blade. Sometimes I can feel it on the outside of my ankle, no not a good sign, though that is not as painful as the place in my shoulder blad that would just like to get pressed in for a nice long amount of time.

In between thoughts I find myself looking over at Dave, as usual. I am enjoying the fact that he is sitting there near me, relaxed, at times chuckling, thoroughly occupied in his readings and writings. I assume it has to do with our online writers group, and yes, I check now that is precisely where his focus lies.

This evening, nearing night, dark out, yes, but not quite ten, I am noting that he is wearing an interesting pair of reading glasses. He has had to wear them (reading glasses) more and more often as of late. He has brought home many a pair over the last few months, though I do believe these are my favorites. They have no rim. The handles are chrome/black, and they don't quite fit over his ears. It is not that they are too small, it is because he has the nose piece set down a bit so that they rest partially down his nose, a stripe of reflected light crossing his cheek.

I've come to like the look of my guy in glasses. Truth be told I have always liked it. There is something about it, like the something that fascinates me about the lines that crawl and transform themselves on the sides of his eyes. They are filled with the telling of so many things that brought smiles, the need to block too much sun or smoke from the tilt of his cigarettes, and the squint in hopes of seeing what lies on a page or a screen a bit better. The same lines that brought on my dear's need for reading glasses.

Sometimes these lines are impatient, crowd eachother, or smooth themselves to sleep. Always, they appeal to me. I find that they, like the reading glasses are two fetishes of mine; and a new wonder now comes to mind. How many other fetishes might I have that remain to be acknowledged and dreampt upon?

5 comments:

Dustjacket Attic said...

Awh that was nice reading about your observant nature.
xoxo

Bill Zuback said...

Such a beautiful observation. One filled with huge amounts of love for the subject, could feel it in every word. Thanks for sharing.

frogdropping said...

Frieda, when I read this, I felt the tranquility, enjoyed between you both. Those quiet moments, the ones to put in the bank and savour, for when life is more hectic.

Dolores Monet said...

Lovely and tranquil, Frieda. As love ages, it can become more beautiful. There is a commercial where a young couple walking in the park passes an elderly couple. The young woman turns and at that moment, the old couple are the most beautiful people in the world.

Frieda Babbley said...

Well, wouldn't it be nice if I said hello? Jeez. I think I was in a fog somewhere between wrinkle and frame, lol.

So glad you all enjoyed this piece. Just one of those odd things that you just have to share (I think it made my guy feel special, =]. )

Thanks you so much Delores, and that is so very true. And I do remember that commercial. It was definitely a favorite of ours. Do they still play that? They do, don't they. It lasted so long because it's such a great one.

DA thank you so very kindly.

Bill, thanks,and you're welcome. Reminds me of a few of your pieces actually. Which reminds me, forever thanks for all the inspiation you've given me for the last... it's been over a year actually, hasn't it!

And froggie, you're right... now to remember to make a withdrawl when life is hecktic. That's the trick, isn't it? Wonderful to see you here. Excellent pregnancy series you've got on HubPages, by the way.

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